so my birthday was monday.
big 21!
joe was SO excited for me to turn 21.
he talked about it allllll the time.
we were going to "do it big"
my best friend happens to turn 21 the day AFTER me
so what did i do?
i did it big.
with my girls.
and i know joe would be proud.
the night is foggy. memories come and go.
but all i know is i woke up with my abs & cheeks hurting from laughing.
newport was a great time. and i will never forget it.
but with this AWESOME birthday there is also some bitter feelings that have come about.
likeeeee
i am another year closer to an age he will indefinitely be at.
he will forever be 23.
and i am now 21.
i am one year closer to being 24; an age he never saw.
that...
scares me.
anxiety sets in.
yikes.
but no matter how old i get some things will always remain true.
i will ALWAYS love him.
and he will ALWAYS love me.
when i am 95 our love will still be there.
i am going to FOREVER miss him.
everyday. all day. everywhere i go and everything i do.
& time will always go on.
no matter what time is going to keep on moving forward.
forward forward forward.
and i cant do a damn thing to stop it.
so instead?
this weekend i chose to do it biggggg.
just for you baby.
bottoms up right??
p.s. you would be proud. i held my alcohol and acted more lady like than i expected.
thanks for watching over me angel.
you have no idea how much i love you & miss you daily.
your my everything.
happy birthday to meeeee.
one more thing to check off my list.